Communication?

me and my girlfriend are having a little bit of trouble communicating and what does it even mean by communitcating anyway, just like talk or what can someone give me advice on how 2 communicate with my girlfriend better and tell me exactly what communticating in a relationship means, in my eyes it means fixing problems and talking alotCommunication?
Communication has many parts. Part one is speaking. You have to talk to her without getting upset, without blaming her, and without making her feel bad. Let her know how you HONESTLY feel. Don't hide your feelings. Don't keep all you feelings inside until you explode with anger.



Part 2: Listening. Be a good listener. Be attentive to what she wants. Many times when a girl is having a bad day she doesn't want you to fix the problem, she just wants someone to listen. Let her vent, but always comfort her.



Part 3: Feedback. If you just sit there and listen to her without giving any signs that you are listening then it will be more worse than if you weren't there for her at all.



But most importantly is honesty and the ability to have an open communication without pride or judgment. Usually, guys are good talkers and the women are the good listeners, but with practice you will be able to learn what she expects from you.



I suggest going to amazon.com and getting a book on communication and actually apply what you learn.



Good luck!Communication?
Communication in a realtionship means asking any questions you have on your mind and being really open about everything. It doesn't mean that you have to share everything, but share yout thoughts and feelings. Anything that's on your mind, ask and be open about it. Just don't keep things to yourself so that you're always questioning yourself about her. Talk through the problems with open minds.Communication?
Its not just talking but always being able to communicate with the other in all kinds of different ways. In order to have good communication you both need to learn patience how to listen and when its best to speak or remain silent.
Just talking about everyday things. If you can't talk to each other, you have nothing.