Saturday, February 25, 2012

What is the communication after one-night stand supposed to be like?

I am curious to learn what are the rules of communication after friends decide to do one-night stand. I am wondering, because normally one-night stands could be random or out-of-the blue. But when friends decide to have sex together, does the same rules apply? Does each person feel obligated to continue the communication with eachother?What is the communication after one-night stand supposed to be like?
There are no rules. It's a one night stand so don't expect a commitment or any loyalty.



The difference with friends is that you still see each other and are you comfortable with the fact that you've seen each other naked or whatever insecurities you both may have. Also, is this friend the type that would blab to those in your circle or put you down for doing something wrong or stupid.



One night stands only work if you are sure you will never see this person again and you both got what you wanted.



Also, never piss in your own pool.
You feel good while you're at it then miserable after.

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What is the communication after one-night stand supposed to be like?
well when it is a random person it is easy to go back to the way things were before you slept with them because you don't know them.....because it is a friend different rules apply. Friends shouldn't sleep with each other like that......number one because it becomes an awkward situation like yours.
Yeah, probably the same rules. If its at your place, offer them cereal in the morning. It's only polite. Don't cook something complicated unless you want to date them. If it's at their place, leave, don't linger forever...that's too rude. Use their name when you say goodbye. And by the way, say goodbye.What is the communication after one-night stand supposed to be like?
If you are already friends, then you shouldn't let it obstruct your friendship. Especially if you were close. Make it clear that it's not gonna happen again and it was an accident, etc.
if you guys are friends then most likely it will be very weird since sex does that to friendships. One night stands or just one night and don't really communicate anymore with that person, so it will be having awkward convos.
instead of doing a one night stand thing do more of a continuous friends with benefits.

you keep your friends, get sex, and there's no strings attached.
I did it once, about 14 years ago. Now, married for 13 years to my "friend" after a one night stand.
well...you'd probably still want to be friends, but I think either you'll end up together even if you weren't planning on it or things are going to get realllllly awkward.
i dont think there is supposed to be communication after a one night stand.
No offense, but you shouldn't be having sex with your friend unless you really like them like that.
well if they were already a friend you continue to talk to them but it might be a little weird
You never hear from them again!
sure they do!
dont just go like it never happened, have a laugh about it and be cool
I think the "one night" part indicates that there really is no subsequent communication.



Solution: stop having random sex like a whore.

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