Saturday, February 25, 2012

How can I improve my communication skills with my fiance and for that matter anyone in my life?

I have communication problems....I don't know how to talk or express my feelings. I really want to be able to talk to my fiance about anything, but find myself hesitating time to time. I don't what to say something that will hurt or upset him or piss him off. I know communication in a relationship is huge. So how can I overcome my communication barrier?How can I improve my communication skills with my fiance and for that matter anyone in my life?
Why do you have a fiance then? Have you thought deeply enough about marriage before saying yes? Why can you not trust your future life partner with stuff about your feelings? How do you know it will hurt him or p*ss him off? If they are too personal to discuss with him, then who do you trust with your innermost thoughts? Sometimes it is best to have secrets/tell little white lies/massage egos %26amp; not air inner voices or thoughts. That's what girl friends/vicars/therapists are for!How can I improve my communication skills with my fiance and for that matter anyone in my life?
The engagement period is a time for the couple to really get to know each other and address serious issues before entering marriage. I do not know how specifically you can do this since I do not know all the facts, but it would be wise for you to tackle this head on even though you are scared of his reaction. If you aren't comfortable now expressing yourself to someone you are going to spend the rest of your life with then how are you going to do it once you are married. A tip would be to write down all your feelings without holding back, read your feelings over and maybe compose a list of things/speech of what you want to tell him. Or better yet be honest and tell him your fears of communication. You have to be honest and open in order for your relationship to work.How can I improve my communication skills with my fiance and for that matter anyone in my life?
Improper communication will at times destroy a relationship.U will have to read a lot to improve ur communicating skills.U shud know as to what u shud speak n when !That's all.
Yes exactly, communication is the most necessary thing in a relationship. However if you have mental reservation about how to communicate with your loved one can be a problem unless be baggage-off. I believe that frankness makes a man. If you have open communication without any fear or inhibition or set back the relationship will go on smoothly. It means that you have to be honest on what you feel towards the other or others despite of its adverse effect. This means that it's better to hurt someone honestly than mislead him or her with a lie. With open communication you use the " but- strategy" meaning say the good things first then pursue it with the but . You can say like " Yes you cook so well and really I enjoy every food that you cook but then, use less salt and oil." This will leave someone's taste buds sweet,rather that judged negatively This strategy is applicable to any situation, first inject the agreement then follow it up with the disagreement and in the end have an open forum where you ahve now the heart to heart section.

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