Saturday, February 25, 2012

Communication?

if someone is obsessive about communication how do you handle it. in my last relationship the girl was sooo concerned about communication that i just started to snap on her. now yes i may have been wrong, but i told her many times to lay off talking about communication and that i was doingmy best. so everyday shes like why didnt u call me or why didnt you pick up i said i was busy and she like ok. then later shes like our commuication is messed up, im telling her im doing my best and then she says its not noticable, so i ask her what can we do and she replies with "i dont know but u need to fix it" so everythings going good then she starts talking about communication then i really let her have it and cuss her out for which i did not apologize beacuse i gave her forewarning...can someone tell me how to avoid this in the future.Communication?
I suggest you should start having an obsession for communication aswell if you want to get along with her in the future
get a new girl or learn how to communicate





roflmaoCommunication?
realize you have a bad 'tude and need to work on your personality. the problem is you, not them.
She has a false idea about what constitutes good communication. It doesn't mean that you need to be in constant contact throughout the day. It means that you need to be honest and open. Availability is important, but not at the expense of your job. If there is something on your mind that your partner needs to know, then you should have the freedom and the comfort to be able to say it.Communication?
KEEP A NOTE BOOK AND EVERYTIME SHE FEELS YOUR NOT COMMUNICATING HAVE HER WRITE IT DOWN AND THEN BEFORE BED CALMLY SET DOWN READ IT AND DISCUSS IT SO YOUR BOTH CALM AND CAN REACH AN AGREEMENT...OR U CAN AGREE TO DISAGREE..
If you don't communicate, then what is the point of a real relationship. She might have been over the top on this one, but you do have to talk at some point.
Sounds to me like your communication WAS a little messed up. But, that was not your fault. I think your ex should have used the word "nagging" instead of "communication."



Many times, women seem to use the "communication" excuse to nag their significant other about issues they want changed. The best solution is to set up some guidelines at the start of your relationship. For example, if you don't like to talk on the phone or you have a demanding job, tell your partner. If you start your relationship honestly, there will be far less problems later. Just decide on the best way for both of you to communicate with one another, and make sure the other person understands.
Ok I have the same problem with my significant other and he does not communicate well either right then and there when a problem apears but he will later and I am the type that likes to talk about it then and there. I know it is hard and you do lash out which will not help but I think you may want to show a little more effort so she can see it and back off a little. That is what it took for me. Remember it is the little things that count sometimes. Now if she is not working with you at all then you need to sit her down and say "listen, I would appreciate it if we could discuss this later I just need time to think" but do not let it roll over until the next day unless it is late. If you are asking her what both of you can do ot fix and she says that you need to fix it then you need to tel her that you guys are a team and if she can not work with you then you might want to figure out if she is really what you are looking for. Communication works with two people working together. Not you need to do this and I will do that. Good luck!
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